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    To hold space for each other

    Anonymous Alcoholics – surely you have heard, read or seen some parts of that work through watching series on Netflix or other channels. What have the AA to do with this app? The Lovers App? Well, as it turns out you need to create a space for each other in your relationship where you can feel at ease, swim fully in the swimming pool of uncertainty and confusion. And at the same time take turns in steering this ship of yours through (maybe) dark and murky waters. One of you might feel more helpless at times, or just more exhausted from work och house hold chores. Hopefully life works with…

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    Relationships – the romantic norm or a new classic norm?

    The School of Life has a lot of interesting material that we have looked into as we created the lovers-app. One of them being the book Relationships. In this book they add a new perspective to the existing Romantic norm of relationships which they call the Classical. The current Romantic script is both normative and delusional. Because in order for us to feel normal in our relationship, many of the following things are meant to happen. We should meet a person of extraordinary inner and outer beauty and immediately feel a special attraction to them, and they to us. We should have highly satisfying sex, not only at the start,…

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    Hello world!

    As we are slowly making progress with our relationship app, we are also slowly updating and working with this site. We hope it will function as a home for you and us, where we can offer more to you. A lot more content, links to articles and tests, FAQ´s, reference lists, our “Why”, and a lot more like the longer reads you will be instructed to read in a few of our cards in the app. We do like conversations so do not hesitate to contact us. We also like to be cheered on and to be challenged so do not hesitate to help us there. Welcome to us and…