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Below you will find a list of many of the references we have used for the app. Note that the list is growing and is not complete.

We do not take responsibility for broken links, but if you do find one – please let us know.

Therapists, coaches and house-gurus

  • Esther Perel
  • David Schnarch
  • Tony Robbins
  • Susan David
  • Therese Mabon
  • Emily Nagoski
  • Brene Brown
  • Jessa K Zimmerman
  • Dr Lauren Fogel Mersy
  • Alain de Botton
  • Justin Lehmiller
  • John Gottman


  • Podcast: “Where do we begin?”
  • Podcast: The Pleasure Mechanic’s


  • The app: Intimacy
  • The app: 36 questions to love
  • The app: 36 questions to fall in love with anyone
  • The app: Fall in love 
  • The app: X-confessions
  • The app: Love nudge

Other resources

  • The School of Life
  • The blog: Down to there
  • Sexologkliniken – in Swedish
  • The 5 Love languages
  • Happinez