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Below you will find a list of many of the references we have used for the app. Note that the list is growing and is not complete.

We do not take responsibility for broken links, but if you do find one – please let us know.

Therapists, coaches and house-gurus

Proud stealers of insights and inspirations, of wisdoms and playfulness, of evidence and research from:

  • Dr David Schnarch
  • Dr Emily Nagoski
  • Esther Perel
  • Dr Julie Gottman
  • Dr John Gottman
  • Dr Brene Brown
  • Dan Goleman
  • Sören Kirkegaard
  • Tara Brach
  • Björn Natthiko Lindeblad
  • Dr Jordan B Peterson
  • Tony Robbins
  • Susan David
  • Dr Lauren Fogel Mersy
  • Alain de Botton – School of Life
  • Dr Justin Lehmiller
  • Byron Katie


  • Podcast: “Where do we begin?”
  • Podcast: The Pleasure Mechanic’s
  • Podcast: Small Things Often
  • Podcast: Sex Talk with my mom


  • The app: Intimacy
  • The app: 36 questions to love
  • The app: 36 questions to fall in love with anyone
  • The app: Fall in love 
  • The app: X-confessions
  • The app: Love nudge
  • The app: Card deck from the Gottman Institute

Other resources